From the day one, when we start observing the world with our own eyes and we try hard to solve the complexities of some vague theories, then at every single step we have been told that this is important….this is good for you….you should do this….and many more sentences like these. But we have never been told the reality and the reality is every single thing in this world is important, but some of the things are most important, which they never told us.And we should care about those most important things. Because they value in our life,Because they value for us.

For me, one such most important thing is SELF-AWARENESS.

When we talk about awareness we talk about general awareness, global awareness, political awareness etc etc …
And even more, we always want to be aware of what is happening in the world.
we want to be aware of what is happening in our friend circle.
We want to be aware of everything, just every single thing.
But did we ever think that are we missing something which we need to be aware? 
My answer is Yes. 
We are missing our self-being, our own being, our self-awareness.

We are thriving hard to attain the knowledge of the world, we want to know every single fact, we want to learn every single thing but in this pursuit, we forget to know our self-being.
Our self-being which is the beginning of everything, a thought to change the world starts from your self-being, a thought to help someone starts from your self-being, a thought to learn something starts from your self-being, a thought to love someone starts from your self-being but still we are not letting our self to know our self-being. 
You know ……all the knowledge, all the facts, all the science could be found in the world but the knowledge of your self-being could only be found in you, neither in the world nor in the books and also not on the Wikipedia. Nobody can tell you what you love to do.Nobody can tell you what is important for you.

Your self-being is just your thing, no one can steal it from you. You have the full rights to it. Don’t let anyone change it… it your parents… be it your friends… be it your partners …or be it any fucking person. Just don’t let them do that.
Let yourself know your self-being. Because when you will get to know your self-being then you will be the most successful and most intelligent person.


You got 31536000 minutes(approx) in your life or even more or less and the world teaches you something every single minute but don’t get trapped in the conspiracy of the world. Solve it and make it clear.
You got to find the answer of your self-being, you got to find what you love, you got to find what you hate, And you got to find what you care the most. Then figure it out, How you can move the things forward you love.
And when you will find them you will never be the same again.

Leave everything, forget everything, set yourself free from all the kind of work for just one day, and do what you love just what you love and don’t care about anything.Question yourself not just one time, just do that every time until you get an answer.Find the most productive work you love to do, be it sleeping or speaking, Just find it. Find the most productive time of the day when you get the lot of ideas, be it mid in the night or mid in the day, Just find it. Find the most productive environment where your brain works 1000x faster, be it your bathroom or an open ground. Just find it.
And make it clear and sound it loud to yourself.

Let me share one story here.

There was a friend of mine, D.
And we met after a long time and he shared with me lot of his work he was doing and some of his great moments. We discussed some of the important things, we talked about business things, marketing, and many more things and he also shared something most important.
And the most important thing was Self-Awareness, that day he taught me why Self-awareness is the most important thing for anyone.He said, long ago he was not self-aware, which was the most important thing he was missing in his life. Because he was confused about his self-being and he did not know what to do. He asked many people and as usual people told him their theories and they advised him to follow one. But he realized that there are so many people and lots of their theories, which he should choose and follow. So, one day he went home and he took out one paper, one pen and he stood in front of the mirror. He closed his eyes and asked himself what do I love to do.
And when he finds an answer, be it good or bad or sometimes vague, he wrote it down on the paper as ……..

I love to think new ideas,
I love imagining, 
I love to explore, 
I love to learn everything….
etc etc…
And he did the same for the whole day. He would stand in front of the mirror and ask the same question and write down the answer as I love………..
By doing this, He understood that there are so many things he loves to do which he did not know before. This is one of the things he did to know his self-being. And today he just does what he loves and he doesn’t care about anyone.

And he told me one thing, he said

“ If you know what you are doing is the damn right thing you love to do, just don’t ever give a f**k about anyone, just do your thing.”

At the end of our meeting, He said to me a punchline, he said 

“Before start doing any single thing, start from your self-being, reverse engineer yourself in every single manner. You are naked from inside and there is nothing which you can not see. Just look inside and know yourself and then all the other things which you want to do will become easy and simple. And you will move in the right path 1000x faster than before.”

And he handed me one of his poem, The title of the poem was …..I love …….
That day,He gave me the homework and said : “ Write this poem for yourself and read it every morning. Just Do it for yourself. 
This poem of your self-being will give you the confidence and power to do what you love.And You will see that your life is changing every single day.

And the meeting ended.

I am sharing his poem with you all and I hope you will also write this poem for yourself with the title I LOVE ……… and will share it with others too.
I wish that after writing this poem you will realize too that “Why it is the most important thing, SELF-AWARENESS”.


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